Do you know people who seem to get all the breaks in life, all the good things, all the luck? Is it something they are doing, or does God just love them more than you?
In the book The Luck Factor: The Four Essential Principles by Professor of Psychology Richard Wiseman, the phenomenon of luck is scientifically studied a) to see if the phenomenon is real and not just anecdotal; b) if it is real, to find out why it works, and c) to determine whether "lucky" people are doing something different that anyone can do.
After interviewing and observing thousands of people, some of whom consider themselves "lucky" and others "unlucky" or "average," it became clear that there really are "lucky" people out there who seem to get all the breaks. Seemingly in defiance of the laws of probability, "lucky" people get great jobs after a chance meeting, meet their perfect life partners in the most improbable ways, and repeatedly get opportunities to realize lifelong dreams through the most random and unlikely chains of events. How do they do it?
From the research, four clear factors that predict the "luck" of a person emerged:
- "Lucky" people are open to new experiences, see and take advantage of opportunities, have large networks, and have a relaxed attitude towards life rather than a fearful one.
- "Lucky" people make great decisions by listening to their intuition, and working on ways of specifically improving their intuition through absorbing relevant information.
- "Lucky" people remember their past "luck," expect to be "lucky" in the future, expect to have "lucky" or favorable interactions with people, set and actively work towards goals, and persevere in the face of adversity because they are certain that "luck" will appear any any moment, as long as they keep trying.
- "Lucky" people have bad luck too, but they see a positive side to such events and believe that "bad luck" will actually be for the best in the long run. They do not dwell on past "bad luck," and they take positive steps towards PREVENTING "bad luck" again in the future.
Have you been "unlucky" in life, career, love, money, health or bowling? The bad news is that it probably WAS all your fault after all. The GREAT news is that it was only your fault, and you have the power to change all that. You are not, as you once assumed, at the mercy of the random chances of life, because Luck is something you can make. It is made by the way you perceive, think, prepare and act.
"Lucky" people (and you will now be joining that group, I hope) are not superstitious, do not gamble or take unjustified risks, do not sit and wait for "luck" to come their way, and do not blame their life on other people or on circumstances over which they have no control, e.g. "bad luck."
"Lucky" people, including you, use the power of their creative minds to visualize what they want, to set goals that they believe in, and to absolutely have a blast working towards those goals.
The harsh reality is that you are going to die someday, whether you have any fun in life or not. You can die a miserable deluded Pessimist, or die a happy deluded Optimist. Your choice!
Oh, and "Lucky" people live longer, too. How 'bout that?